Cleansing and Moisturizing
- Gentle cleanser labelled for sensitive skin or for eczema
- Non-irritating and pH balanced or neutral
- Use lukewarm or cool water (hot water strips natural oils). Keep showers brief (less than 10 minutes) to minimize skin irritation
A cream is likely best for you right now. The type of moisturizer you choose (called the “vehicle”) matters because your skin may be more sensitive and dry during treatment.
Understanding moisturizer types:
- Gels – Lightest, may not provide enough moisture during treatment
- Lotions – Light to medium, absorb quickly but need frequent reapplication
- Creams – Thicker and more moisturizing, ideal for treatment-sensitive skin
- Ointments – Heaviest and most protective, but can feel greasy
Creams typically provide the right balance of moisture and protection for treatment-sensitive skin without being too heavy for daily facial use. Look for cream-based products that are:
- Hypoallergenic
- Fragrance free
- pH balanced or neutral
- Avoid anything labelled “anti-ageing”
Fragrance-free and scent-free are not the same. Scent-free products may still contain masking fragrances, which can be irritating. Look for ‘fragrance-free’ on the label whenever possible.
Moisturize immediately after patting your skin dry from bathing to lock in moisture. If you don’t bathe daily, moisturizing on dry skin is still beneficial.
It’s important to note that oils don’t add moisture – they lock in existing hydration.
For best results, apply oils to slightly damp skin or use them in combination with a moisturizer. The exception is scalp care when you have hair, where oils can be used alone since applying cream to the scalp isn’t practical.
If you want to use oils to lock in moisture, look for ones that are fragrance-free and non-comedogenic (won’t clog pores). Gentle, non-comedogenic options include:
- Rosehip seed oil
- Shea butter
- Squalene
- Argan oil
- Grapeseed oil (cosmetic grade)
- Castor oil
- Baby oil
- Petroleum Jelly
- Bio-oil
Coconut oil can be absorbed through skin and may affect cholesterol levels in some cases. It may cause allergic reactions in those sensitive to cocamidopropyl betaine. It’s better to avoid using cooking oils on your skin and opt for products specifically designed for skincare.
Always test on a patch test on a small skin area that isn’t your face first.
Skincare Ingredients and Treatments
Treat your skin as if you have eczema. Hyaluronic acid is suitable for sensitive skin, but put aside other acids until 6 months after treatment ends. That includes retinol any other active ingredients.
Wait until treatment is complete, or ensure the practitioner is trained to work with cancer patients using extremely gentle, non-irritating products.
Toners are OK if your skin tolerates them and they’re not too drying. With a neutral cleanser and moisturizer, you may not need toner.
Vitamin C serums are generally safe during cancer treatment. Vitamin C is an antioxidant and unlikely to cause problems. However, avoid Vitamin C serums mixed with retinol, as retinol can be drying and harsh on sensitive skin during treatment.
- Start slowly – use every other day to test tolerance
- Choose lower concentrations (10-15%) and stabilized forms for gentler application
- Stop if you experience stinging, redness, or irritation
- Always follow with moisturizer and sunscreen
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- For general comfort and sensitive scalps:
Bamboo, cotton, linen, and modal are excellent choices because they are lightweight, moisture-wicking, and allow for good airflow. Bamboo regulates temperature and is soft on sensitive skin, while cotton offers all-day comfort and linen is highly breathable.
- For winter/cold weather:
Look for soft, breathable, and non-irritating fabrics like bamboo, fleece-lined cotton, and wool blends with a soft inner lining. Avoid scratchy wool or synthetic fibres that can cause irritation. A silk or satin lining inside hats can also help prevent friction and dryness.
- For maximum coolness:
Bamboo, cotton, linen, and modal are your best options. In terms of design, loose-fitting caps and lightweight scarves offer versatility, while turban-style wraps provide full coverage.
Consider owning at least 3 to 5 head coverings to ensure you have enough options for different occasions while allowing for washing and drying. Sleep head coverings should be made from softer, more comfortable materials that provide warmth and minimise friction against the scalp, making cotton or bamboo ideal choices. Like pyjamas, it’s important for hygiene to reserve specific items for sleep to reduce transfer of dirt and sweat from daytime activities to bed.
For daily wear, a variety of styles, including caps, scarves, turbans, and hats, can be beneficial. These should be made from lightweight, breathable fabrics that keep the scalp cool and comfortable while providing coverage.
Head coverings can be purchased from various sources, both online and in stores. Most wig boutiques will also carry head coverings and many other accessories. You can also find head coverings on specialty websites that cater specifically to those undergoing treatment. Cancer support organisations often provide resources or even free caps. Department stores and local boutiques may also carry suitable headwear. Additionally, some hospitals/cancer centres provide head coverings or purchasing resources. When selecting a head covering, consider comfort, material, and style to find the best option for your needs.
Ideally, you should wash them every 2 to 3 days, especially if you sweat or wear them for extended periods; daily wear may necessitate more frequent washing. The fabric type can also influence washing frequency—cotton and bamboo can be laundered more often without damage, while delicate fabrics like silk may require less frequent cleaning. Additionally, since chemotherapy can make the skin more sensitive, it’s important to use gentle, hypoallergenic detergents and avoid fabric softeners that could irritate the scalp. If you notice any odours, visible dirt, or signs of irritation on your scalp, wash your head coverings immediately.
A sleep cap is designed for nighttime use and is made from soft breathable material. They help keep the head warm while collecting hair that is coming out and protecting the scalp from friction against pillows.
Unless it is specifically listed as having UV protection you should wear sunscreen under a head covering because UV rays can penetrate these materials. The scalp may be more sensitive during and after chemotherapy, increasing the risk of sunburn. If you plan to be outside for an extended period, sunscreen adds an essential layer of protection, providing peace of mind, particularly if you adjust or remove your head covering throughout the day.
Keep sun protection top of mind by wearing a waterproof sunscreen and/or a swim cap, wide-brimmed hat or head covering with UV protection.
Wear a head covering like a simple cap or wig grip band underneath.
Scarf Styling and Techniques
The square knot (or reef knot) is recommended due to its simplicity and security. To tie a square knot, start by positioning the scarf on your head so that the ends hang evenly down your back or to the sides, depending on your style preference. Cross the right end of the scarf over the left end, then bring the right end under the left and pull both ends tight to form the first part of the knot. Next, take the left end and cross it over the right end, bringing the left end under the right and pulling both ends tight again to complete the knot. The square knot is known for staying tied, making it suitable for all-day wear, and it can be easily adjusted to tighten or loosen the fit as needed. Additionally, the knot lies flat against your head, preventing bulkiness and discomfort.
Yes, at minimum the top of the ears should be covered to create a more comfortable and polished look.
Yes! Search terms like “scarf tying tutorial for cancer patients,” “how to tie a scarf for hair loss,” and “headscarf tying techniques for chemotherapy.” Other effective phrases include “chemo scarf styles,” “head covering tutorials for cancer,” and “easy scarf styles for cancer patients.” Utilizing these search terms on platforms like YouTube or Google can help you find a variety of helpful tutorials tailored to your needs.
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Yes. Remove with oily, acetone-free remover. Use petroleum jelly instead of cutting cuticles. Avoid acrylics (bacteria risk) and wear rubber gloves for chores.
Ask if professionals are trained for cancer patients. Avoid anything causing breaks or bleeding. Skip acrylics due to infection risk. Do not push back, cut, or push down cuticles. Only basic nail polish application is recommended—avoid other specialty services.
Petroleum jelly can be applied to nails to moisturize and act as a barrier cream, helping protect them from everyday damage. You can also consider using a hydro-soluble nail strengthener. Ask your healthcare team or pharmacist for recommendations on products specifically designed to strengthen brittle nails during treatment.
Yes, as long as skin isn’t scratched or broken and you tolerate it.
Recovery timelines:
Fingernails: Nails grow one millimetre per month, so full recovery takes six to twelve months. Bumpy ridges are from treatment interrupting nail growth—they’ll grow out normally.
Toenails: Toenails grow half a millimetre per month, so full regrowth takes twelve to eighteen months, especially the big toe.
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Understanding Your Wig Options
Both kinds of wigs have their advantages and disadvantages. Synthetic hair wigs are lightweight and comfortable to wear and generally easy to care for and style. They are often much less expensive than real hair wigs and are available in a wide variety of colours and styles. Their drawbacks are that they can be damaged by heat and steam, including hair dryers, hair curlers, heat from the oven and steam from a dishwasher.
Human hair wigs feel natural and can be styled using regular hair tools like hair dryers, curling irons and flat irons. They are also quite durable. But, they are more expensive, their colours can fade and they take more maintenance to clean and style.
Hair toppers share characteristics of both hair extensions and wigs. They clip in at the top of your hair, but they generally just cover the crown of the head. Since they have a smaller cap, they sit flatter on the head. Toppers allow you to still use your natural hair and blend it in with the topper. Similar to other forms of wigs and extensions, you can purchase curly hair toppers, toppers with bangs, or even custom pieces with balayage to match your own style.
Halo wigs are a curtain of hair that fit around your head similar to a headband. These are usually used if you have thinning hair or if you are bald and want a curtain of hair on the sides and back of your head under a hat or scarf wrap, but don’t want to wear a full wig.
If you were to wear a halo wig with existing hair, a thick weft of hair wraps around your head and has a thin, clear “fishing line” or elastic that hides under your natural hair to make the halo extension blend in with your hair and be hidden.
Choosing & Purchasing a Wig
Yes, you can buy a wig online. There are pros and cons to looking at wigs online versus visiting a wig salon with medical quality wigs. Online allows you privacy and anonymity with lots of wig styles available. Some people find the options overwhelming, so seeing a few wigs in a salon may feel more manageable. Generally, online wigs are less expensive than wigs in stores. Just remember that it’s harder to tell texture, colour and quality from an online photo and there’s no way to try it on for fit.
It can be useful to talk to an expert, regardless of how you choose to shop. Some online wig shops do offer consultations with a wig professional over zoom, chat or email.
- The climate you live in, especially if you live somewhere with frequent hot or rainy weather.
• Do you want a full or partial wig? You can also opt to attach bangs, side pieces, and ponytails to any remaining hair or head coverings. Think about potential accessories, including scarves, barrettes, and clips.
• Do you want to wear a wig similar to your regular hairstyle? If so, snap a few pics of your current hair and bookmark recent photos. Cut a lock of hair to represent your desired wig colour. Always use natural light to compare wigs to your hair sample.
• If you decide to try out a new style, colour, or length, gather a collection of photos to use for inspiration. You can have a chat with your hairstylist for tips, ideas, and insights. In fact, buying a wig can be a great way to try out a new look.
Medical-grade wigs are designed for long-term wear and can sometimes be covered by health insurance due to their necessity for medical reasons. Both medical-grade and higher-quality wigs are constructed to feel natural and fit well on the scalp, using materials that are hypoallergenic, gentle on the scalp, and designed for extended wear during treatment.
More expensive wigs (whether medical-grade or high-quality beauty wigs) typically have better cap construction, more natural-looking hairlines, and superior craftsmanship. Less expensive wigs may use lower-quality materials and construction that don’t feel as natural and may not be as comfortable for extended wear during treatment.
The Canadian Cancer Society offers an online wig bank where you can submit a picture of your hair style, and they will ship you a wig that best matches what you are looking for (based on their inventory). If you would prefer something local/in-person, you may find a wig bank at your local cancer support organisation, wig shop or at the cancer centre.
If you still have hair but anticipate that you’ll lose it all, you will want to consider this when trying on wigs. You can wet or slick down your hair to help with getting proper sizing. Find out the measurement of your head using a soft measuring tape around your forehead, above your ears, and around the nape of your neck. Wigs typically come in petite, average, and large sizes, so compare your measurements to the manufacturer’s sizing chart. Be sure to always wear a hygiene cap when trying on wigs. Position the wig comfortably at your natural hairline (this is four fingers above your eyebrows), making sure the front aligns with your forehead, and the back covers the nape of your neck.
There are several effective methods:
• Wig grip bands: Adjustable, non-slip bands worn underneath the wig that sit firmly around your head like a headband, providing a surface for your wig to ‘grab’ onto.
• Wig tape: Double-sided, hypoallergenic tape applied to small areas like the front hairline, sides, and nape of the neck. Clean your scalp first, apply tape to scalp, then position the wig and press down where tape is applied.
• Wig liners: Preferably non-slip or silicone-lined, these create a smooth surface that helps prevent slippage.
• Adjustable straps: Many wigs feature built-in straps that can be tightened for a better fit.
• Secure cap constructions: Lace fronts or polyurethane bases provide additional grip.
When removing wig tape, gently lift the wig off and use an adhesive remover or gentle oil to dissolve any remaining residue. Many people find wig grip bands easier to use than tape.
For wigs that are too big:
Many wigs come with adjustable straps inside the cap that can be tightened. Wearing a wig liner can help reduce excess space and provide a snugger fit. For a professional solution, a stylist who specialises in wigs can make alterations, such as taking in the sides or adding structure.
For very large or very small heads:
Look for specialty brands that offer wigs specifically designed for your head size. Choose wigs with adjustable straps or hooks for a customised fit. Stretch caps or lace front wigs provide additional flexibility. If you have difficulty finding a suitable option, consider investing in a custom-made wig tailored to your specific measurements.
If it’s mesh on the front of the wig, the excess lace/mesh can be cut off right back to your hairline (you may want professional help for this). Another option is to hide the mesh along the hairline with eyeshadow, or try dark or dim earthy coloured nontoxic marker or eyeliner to shade the zones where tracks are appearing.
Try these solutions:
Securing the wig: Use small pieces of wig tape on the hearing aids or close to the ear to stop the wig from shifting.
Securing your hearing aids: Look for ear grips (also called anchors or retention lines)—plastic wires that attach to your hearing aid and coil up inside your outer ear, holding the hearing aid in place even with slight jostling from your wig.
Managing Wig Comfort Issues
Synthetic wigs are lighter and cooler than human hair wigs. You may also want to opt for a shorter style so that airflow reaches your neck. Look for wigs that are wefted at the back to allow air flow to the scalp—these are also called cap-less or open capped wigs.
Choose lightweight, breathable wigs with cap designs that allow air circulation, such as lace front or open wefted styles. Wearing a moisture-wicking wig liner made from breathable materials like bamboo can help absorb sweat and keep your scalp cool. Keep cool accessories handy, such as a portable fan, cooling wipes, or a misting spray. Make sure your wig isn’t too tight, as a snug fit can trap heat.
Wig liners designed for scalp protection (different from fashion wig liners) can help. Look for cotton or bamboo materials. Bamboo is especially beneficial as it is soft, hypoallergenic, and moisture-wicking. Choose seamless or tagless designs to reduce pressure points, and ensure they’re machine washable for hygiene.
Caring for your scalp may also help—cleanse and moisturize regularly and consider using a dandruff shampoo about 2 times per week. Massage into the scalp, let it sit for 2-5 minutes, then rinse off.
Consider having the wig thinned to make it less full, which would reduce the weight. It’s best to go to a stylist experienced with wigs for this service.
Styling and Customization
Your hairdresser may be able to cut your wig, but it’s important they have experience working with wigs. For human hair wigs, experienced stylists can cut, colour, and style them much like natural hair. For synthetic wigs, the fibres fall differently than human hair, so wig-specific experience is crucial.
Many wig boutiques offer styling services specifically for wigs with trained professionals who can help with cutting, shaping, and adjusting the fit.
Yes, but be careful not to damage the wig cap. Because of the way a wig is constructed, a high-top ponytail or bun won’t work and will show the wig cap.
Yes, especially with synthetic wigs. Avoid heat from hot ovens, BBQs, fire-pits, steam from dishwashers, or very humid, hot environments. Never use hair dryers, curling irons or flat irons on synthetic wigs unless they’re specifically heat-resistant.
Throughout your wig experience, don’t hesitate to consult with professionals. Wig boutiques, experienced hairstylists, and wig specialists can provide valuable guidance on selection, fitting, styling, and maintenance. Many offer services even if you didn’t purchase the wig from them.
Use products specifically designed for synthetic fibres to maintain their appearance and longevity. This includes synthetic wig shampoo, synthetic wig conditioner, and synthetic wig leave-in conditioner.
Yes, but proceed with caution. A light dusting of powder (baby powder, cornstarch, or translucent face powder) can sometimes help tone down excess shine. For darker wigs, a tinted dry shampoo is a better option to avoid leaving a chalky cast. These are DIY, at-your-own-risk methods and may leave the wig looking dusty or uneven if overapplied.
For a safer, longer-lasting solution, look for a synthetic wig dulling spray. These sprays are designed specifically for wig fibers to create a matte, natural finish without residue, stickiness, or buildup. Many are lightweight aerosols or “dry wax” sprays that also add a bit of texture and hold. Using wig-specific shampoos and conditioning sprays can also help manage shine over time.
If you’re unsure, it’s always best to consult a wig professional for product recommendations suited to your wig’s colour and fibre.
Chlorine and saltwater can damage both synthetic and human hair wigs. If you choose to swim, rinse your wig with fresh water before entering the pool to create a barrier against chlorine or salt water. Rinse with fresh water immediately after and then wash and condition.
Fixing frizzy ends:
• Wash the wig with synthetic wig shampoo
• Apply leave-in conditioner designed for synthetic wigs
• Use a wide-tooth comb, starting from the ends and working up
• Apply a small amount of anti-frizz serum designed for synthetic wigs
Preventing frizzy ends:
• Regular maintenance with proper products
• Store on a wig stand away from direct sunlight or heat
• Minimize heat exposure and friction
• Use humidity-resistant products if you live in a humid climate
• Be gentle when brushing, always starting from the ends
Products designed specifically for synthetic wigs such as gel or mousse, anti-frizz serum, and finishing spray.
Use a wide-tooth comb for detangling, especially when wet, as it minimizes tugging and prevents breakage. For daily maintenance, use a wig brush specifically designed for wigs with soft bristles. Always start brushing from the tips and work your way up to the roots, using gentle strokes when the wig is dry.
Only if your wig is heat-resistant synthetic or human hair. Always check the manufacturer’s guidelines for maximum heat settings. Standard synthetic wigs cannot handle heat styling. If using heat on a heat-resistant wig, apply a heat protectant spray and keep temperatures below 300°F (150°C) for synthetic wigs. Test a small, inconspicuous section first.
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Community Resources
Here is Look Good Feel Better's list of trusted non-profit organizations offering complementary resources for people affected by cancer.
Community Partners
Look Good Feel Better is a national charity supporting Canadians affected by cancer.
Cancer can affect many aspects of life beyond the disease itself, but there are many organizations across Canada that help individuals, families, and caregivers navigate these challenges.
For local or community-based support, the Canadian Cancer Society’s Community Services Locator (CSL) connects Canadians to more than 4,500 cancer-related services nationwide.
The organizations listed below are trusted national partners working alongside Look Good Feel Better to help people affected by cancer access the care and resources they need.
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Nutrition
Good nutrition plays a vital role at every stage of the cancer journey, from easing treatment side effects to supporting recovery. Use these practical strategies suggested from an oncology nutritionist to help guide your approach.
Nutrition during and after treatment
While practicing healthy eating habits and staying active is important for every stage of life, they become increasingly important during cancer treatment. Maintaining your strength, decreasing the side effects of chemotherapy, and feeling good are all benefits of good nutrition and exercise. If you count a dietitian or nutritionist as part of your care team, it’s important to consult them prior to creating a schedule or grocery list—every body is unique!
Eating Well: A dietician and survivor shares her best nutrition tips
Focusing on nutrition gives cancer patients a greater sense of well-being and control. People who have been diagnosed with cancer, are in remission or are living with cancer have a lot on their minds – a nutrition may not be high on their list. Yet, nutrition can be a critical part of one’s cancer journey.
Jean LaMantia, a Toronto-based registered dietitian, and cancer survivor, recommends approaching nutrition in two phases:
- Phase 1: Nutrition that helps you get through your treatment
- Phase 2: Nutrition Post-treatment as a positive step to potentially prevent reoccurrence
“During my lymphoma treatment, I had severe nausea and vomiting, so I had to get strategic about what I could eat and what I could keep down.”
Jean LaMantia, Registered Dietitian and Cancer Survivor
Top Tips During Treatment
While you’re going through treatment, don’t worry about eating the PERFECT diet. LaMantia recommends taking this pressure off and simply eating in a way that helps you manage your side effects.
Eat cold and room temperature foods. They have less aroma and are less likely to trigger nausea
Plate food beautifully on a small plate to combat low appetite
Prioritize highly-nourishing foods, especially protein sources
Add extra calories to your meal with a drizzle of extra virgin olive oil
“After treatment, people who are in remission can experience a lot of anxiety, worrying about reoccurrence. Proactively doing your best to eat healthy foods that could lower your risk of recurrence can put your mind at ease. I find that it can be very empowering and can help you take back control.”
Jean LaMantia, Registered Dietitian and Cancer Survivor
Top Food Picks Post Treatment
Post-treatment, nutrition can play an important role in your recovery and healing.
According to LaMantia, the key is to focus on foods that are supportive of the immune system, anti-inflammatory, and proven to target cancer cells.
Foods high in vitamin E (particularly wheat germ and almonds)
Spices including ginger and turmeric
Omega 3 fatty acids (found in fish like salmon, mackerel, rainbow trout, sardines, herring, and anchovies)
Cruciferous vegetables (broccoli, cabbage, brussels sprouts, cauliflower, and kale)
Whole grains (quinoa, wild rice, and whole grain pasta)
Protein foods (skinless poultry, yogurt, dried peas, beans, or lentils)
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Mindfuless During Cancer with Dr. Linda Carlson
Understand more about mindfulness and its importance in treatment and daily living.
We sat down to chat with Dr. Linda Carlson, professor in the Faculty of Medicine and co-author of The Art and Science of Mindfulness (full biography below). She defines mindfulness as “Paying attention on purpose in the present moment with an open and accepting attitude.” During the hour, Dr. Carlson helped break down what mindfulness is, provided research-based examples of how it can help reduce stress, support mental health during cancer and gave us practical mindfulness tips that can be beneficial in your everyday professional and personal lives.
Watch the full conversation
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Q & A with Dr. Linda Carlson
Purposely paying attention to the present moment with a certain attitude towards yourself that is non-judgmental and accepting.
If you’re not paying attention, your thoughts are in the past (regrets, ruminating about things you can’t change) or racing about the future (worries of the unknown.)
Stress is largely how we interpret or perceive what is happening. There are two sides to it; there’s the cognitive—or the way we think about, or what causes stress—and there’s what it does to our body.
Understanding mindfulness and being in the present stops us from thinking about the past and worrying about the future and being mindful in that moment can help manage stress.
We will never know for any individual how much of a role stress may have played in leading up to risk for cancer but what we do know, though, is that when people learn to manage and especially manage emotions like depression, they may have better cancer outcomes.
Awareness of Breath Exercise
This exercise helps us notice where our attention wants to go; and so we will try to direct it on the breath. But you’ll notice as you’re doing it that your attention is jumping around, two parts:
Paying attention to the breath and the body
The other piece is noticing what your mind wants to do instead
Follow these steps:
Find a comfortable spot.
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Place one hand on your chest and the other hand lower down on your belly.
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Let go of any judgement.
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Don’t analyze the way you’re breathing, just pay attention to how the breath is coming and going in your body.
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Breath in.
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You may want to sit up a bit so that you can feel the breath moving in your body.
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As you breathe in you’ll notice movement. Just try noting if you feel that movement in the top hand or the bottom hand and the length of the breath. Then as you breathe out, try taking note again of the same thing—where’s the movement and how does it feel.
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Is the ‘in’ breath a similar length to the out? Or is one shorter than the other?
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What happens as you switch from in to out, is there a pause?
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If your mind wanders, lead it back to your breath and approach it with a sense of curiosity and openness.
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Does your breath change in anyway?
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Take a few more breaths.
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Lower your hands.
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Open your eyes.
Mindfulness retraining is a skill.
Our minds have learned to operate a certain way through so many years, and often those paths support anxiety or depression or worry, those are the neural connections that we so often tread. So, with mindfulness training, even something as simple as directing your attention to the breath repeatedly actually starts a new path and rewires the neurons in our brain to a path that supports the ability to be conducive to happy minutes.
Studies have shown that even two months of training changes the patterns, the function as well as the connectivity in your brain. It’s that training that skill building that does it well.
Incorporate 10, 20 or 30 minutes a day if that’s what you can do. Regular practice is useful. Making it part of your life and applying those attitudes towards not only your mindfulness practice, but other elements of your life, can be beneficial.
Mindfulness is a meditation practice where we do the formal act, where we set aside the time every day to practice mindfulness of breath. Paying attention to your breathing is a way to retrain the mind, there are many other forms of meditation that also strengthen your capacity to be mindful.
Mindfulness practice is a time where you can purposefully open the doors to your emotions. Emotions are healthy. What’s unhealthy is suppressing emotions or pretending they don’t exist, and thinking you have to put on a happy face all the time. Letting go of the facade and just saying, ‘it’s okay to feel rotten’, ‘it’s okay to be scared’, ‘it’s okay to be sad’. There’s grief in this process.
The mindfulness practice is a wonderful container where you can allow yourself to just work through and process those different emotions, because they will shift and change, but only if we give them the space to move.
People often believe that it’s our job to manage the emotions of the people in our lives; but it’s not your job to do that. It’s your job to manage how you respond to their distress, it’s not your job to fix their distress.
Refer them to sources of support and counselors you know. Supporting people usually feel like they have to pull it together because the focus is usually on the patient; mindfulness helps everyone.
When pain arises, what we do is actually turn our attention towards the pain and deconstruct the sensation. Instead of turning away from the pain, we turn towards it and embrace it again with kindness and compassion and learn to understand it a little bit better. So, the pain itself may not go away, but the suffering we experience can be much less.
Yoga is a moving mediation. It’s paying attention in a mindful way and it’s really about connecting with the body. Our mind and body are not separate. Every state of mind is the state of body and sometimes we’re so disconnected from our physical bodies.
When you’ve gone through the experience of cancer there can be more of that disconnection, and there can be hard feelings; you can be mad at your body or feel betrayed. It’s really an opportunity to reconnect with the body and re-friend the body and realize that you know as long as you’re here, you’re breathing and moving that there’s more going right then there is going wrong.
You can get in a negative spiral where maybe you have a symptom that was something you had when you first got diagnosed with cancer, you become very vigilant and you’re stressing, you keep monitoring it. Maybe you’re poking yourself. You get really wound up and that tends to make the symptom worse.
One way to avoid this is when you notice the symptom, say okay well this may or may not be related to cancer so I’m not going to worry about it right now. I’ll just use what I know how to relax do a few deep breaths. And if this persists, then go to the doctor.
Recognize it, you set it aside, you do the kind of relaxation and meditation practices and often it’ll just pass. But if it does persist, then you’ve got a plan that you’re going to get it looked into.
Biography
Dr. Linda Carlson holds the Enbridge Research Chair in Psychosocial Oncology, is Full Professor in Psychosocial Oncology in the Department of Oncology, Cumming School of Medicine at the University of Calgary, and Adjunct Professor in the Department of Psychology. She is the Director of Research and works as a Clinical Psychologist at the Department of Psychosocial Resources at the Tom Baker Cancer Centre (TBCC), where she has worked since 1997. She also holds a CIHR SPOR-funded mentorship chair in innovative clinical trials, which funds the TRACTION program (Training in Research And Clinical Trials in Integrative Oncology), supporting a multidisciplinary group of University of Calgary fellows studying Integrative Oncology.
Dr. Carlson received the Kawano New Investigator Award from the International Psycho-Oncology Society in 2006; the William E. Rawls Prize in cancer control from the National Cancer Institute of Canada/Canadian Cancer Society in 2007; a New Investigator Award from the Canadian Psychological Association Health Section in 2009, the inaugural Research Excellence award from the Canadian Association of Psychosocial Oncology in 2010, the Arete Award for Research Excellence from the Department of Oncology at the University of Calgary in 2012, the Bernard Fox Memorial Award from the International Psycho-Oncology Society in 2019, and was shortlisted for the Dr. Rogers Prize in Complementary and Alternative Medicine in 2013, 2015, 2017 and 2019. She is also a fellow of the Society for Behavioral Medicine and the Mind and Life Institute, is the President-Elect of the Society for Integrative Oncology, and is Co-Editor-in-Chief for the official International Psycho-Oncology Society journal: The Journal of Psychosocial Oncology Research and Practice.
Dr. Carlson’s research in Psychosocial Oncology, Integrative Oncology and Mindfulness-Based Cancer Recovery has been published in many high-impact journals and book chapters, and she published a patient manual in 2011 with Michael Speca entitled: Mindfulness-Based Cancer Recovery: A step-by-step MBSR approach to help you cope with treatment and reclaim your life, in addition to a professional training manual in 2009 (2nd Edition 2017) with Shauna Shapiro entitled The Art and Science of Mindfulness: Integrating mindfulness into psychology and the helping professions. She has published over 200 research papers and book chapters, holds several millions of dollars in grant funding and is regularly invited to present her work at international conferences, most recently in Netherlands, Switzerland, China, Australia, New Zealand, Africa, Israel and all across Canada and the USA. She presented a TEDx talk called Mindfulness for Personal and Collective Evolution in 2016, you can find the video here.
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LGFB Podcast: Facing Cancer Together
Support and insights for patients, loved ones, and care teams – all in one podcast. If your life is touched by cancer, the Facing Cancer Together podcast is for you.
Facing cancer doesn’t mean you are now only “the cancer patient”
So often, people in our workshops tell us that they need to feel seen, to feel understood and not feel alone. Please share the Facing Cancer Together podcast with anyone in your life facing a cancer diagnosis – or caring for someone who is.
Episode Guide
Sit Back, Relax, & Enjoy these informative episodes hosted by our very own Susan Larkin!
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EP 0
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What is the Facing Together Podcast?
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Introduction
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EP 1
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You have cancer – Now What?
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In our first episode, host Susan Larkin introduces some of the real voices you will hear throughout the series as they share the real deal about their own personal cancer experiences. Whether you are a patient, family, friends, or part of the health care team – we are – Facing Cancer Together.
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This is Supposed to be Normal?
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Hair loss. Brittle fingernails. Rashes. Stomach upset. Fatigue. Brain fog. Just a short list of the many side effects someone may have told you was “normal”. Dr. Margaret Fitch, Oncology Nurse professor and a leading researcher in psychosocial support in oncology explains how there is nothing normal about it.
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Jules Whish on Living with Cancer
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With advancement in treatments and greater understanding of the disease – there are people who are living with cancer. But what does that mean? Jules Whish joins us and shares how she is figuring it out as she goes – along with sharing on social media.
Learn more about Jules Whish: https://www.heyjules.ca/
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Support Systems
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What the heck is psychosocial support? It can be emotional support, spiritual, overall well-being, and even practical support. Dr. Margaret Fitch, Oncology Nurse, professor and a leading researcher in psychosocial support is back, talking about just how important these supports are.
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Michelle Audoin is Living with Cancer
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Navigating stage four cancer, facing cancer as a Black woman, grieving – and dried up raisins. Michelle Audoin is here to talk about it all – including how she ended up revealing more than she thought she ever would.
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Navigating Nutrition
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Going through treatment, there can be so many extra sources of stress – including food & nutrition. Hopefully listening to Registered Dietician Denise Gabrielson will help take some of that stress off your plate.
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Brave, Fierce and Funny Part 1
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Anyone who names their own podcast “Women of Ill Repute” is not going to hold back. And Maureen Halloway and Wendy Mesley certainly do not hold back when it comes to sharing their cancer experience.
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Brave, Fierce and Funny Part 2
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Radio broadcaster Maureen Halloway and television journalist Wendy Mesley are back – continuing the conversation about their cancer experience.
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Unique Experiences
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Everyone’s cancer experience is unique. In this episode, you’ll hear from Michelle Sylvain who is currently in treatment, then Denise Dmitruk on going through treatment as a nurse – and her most unusual pet. We finish with a male perspective from Michael Suba, who is looking back years later – and learning to trust his body again.
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Talking to your Kids with Guest Audrey Guth
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Often, a personal cancer experience can highlight gaps in the system. For Audrey Guth, it led her to helping mothers facing cancer and helping their children. In this episode, Audrey teaches us how to talk to kids about cancer.
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How to Feel Like Yourself
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The appearance-related impacts of cancer treatment can take a very serious toll on someone’s overall well-being. It’s not vanity. It’s about looking into a mirror, and not seeing the “Cancer Patient” – but instead seeing yourself. Dr. Margaret Fitch, and some of our other special guests, discuss why feeling like yourself does, in fact, make you feel better. Then, Andrea Galley talks about “Boobie Parties”, and body image post-surgery.
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Back to Work / Back to “Normal”…Now What?
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When treatment is done, people around you – including co-workers and bosses – may feel you are now “back to normal”. But side effects can last much longer after treatment ends. Dr. Christine Maheu and Maureen Parkinson, Co-Directors of Cancer and Work, will join us to share best practices.
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You Are Not Alone
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Throughout this podcast, you’ve heard people share their very personal stories and experiences around cancer. So many of them were nervous about being “interviewed”. When I asked them why they were doing it – they all said the same thing. They wanted to share their story to help someone else going through treatment, to know they are not alone.
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When I first started experiencing unusual symptoms – constipation, bloating, heartburn, abdominal pain – in the summer of 2024, my first instinct was to put pen to paper. I drew a diagram of my body and wrote down all the things I’d been feeling. That’s the art therapist in me. When I showed the illustration to my doctor, she immediately recognized the signs of ovarian cancer. A CT scan revealed a large tumour over my right ovary, confirming her suspicions. I was completely shocked and devastated.
My career as a clinical counsellor and art therapist with preteens and teenagers abruptly stopped when I was diagnosed. It was such positive and enjoyable work. And not only did I have to leave my private practice, I had to stop doing things that gave me pleasure and joy in life.
I love being active: Zumba, belly dancing, strength training, circuit training. I also enjoy cooking wonderful food and travelling. But quite suddenly, my life was now filled with endless medical appointments. Testing, scans, blood work, chemotherapy, surgeries. It was surreal.
With my psychology background, I knew I had to look after the other parts of myself. The physical was being cared for. What about my emotional self, my sense of self, and my need for connection?
It had seemed that all the joyful activities in my life had come to a halt, but I was able to resurrect some activities that I hadn’t done in a while – things that I could go back to. Those included reading and art. I love art, especially drawing and painting with watercolours, and it has always been my resource during the tough times in life. It’s a wonderful outlet for sorrow and other emotions that need to be released.
I had no words for what was happening to me, and so I started to draw. I drew myself sitting in the middle of a tsunami wave – the tsunami of grief after diagnosis. I painted myself at nighttime in a jungle, with moonlight pouring down – standing in the garden of hope. I created more and more art, navigating the back and forth between despair and hopefulness.
I also talked with my caring partner, Bill. I cried a lot. I got a counsellor. I connected with friends. And I found community. When I first heard about Look Good Feel Better (LGFB), from a woman in the cosmetics department at Shoppers Drug Mart, a little spark went off. I signed up right away. At the workshop, I was amazed by how supportive it felt to be in a space with other women who I could relate to. I wasn’t alone – we were all going through it. The workshop was so informative, helpful, positive, and uplifting – something I dearly needed. And with my body having surrendered to all the necessary medical procedures, learning how to use makeup to my advantage was a way to take back my sense of dignity and to connect with my femininity.
LGFB brought me a respite from my sorrow and loss. It was a bright light, bringing a sense of community and breaking the isolation I was feeling – just like my art. Body, mind, and spirit are all integrated parts of us, and throughout my cancer journey, what really needed tending was my emotional side. It was stormy and intense – it needed to be expressed. We don’t have to be positive and brave all the time.
I can’t control everything, but I can control how I care for myself. Eating well, staying connected, and doing things I enjoy – reading, creativity – have made all the difference.
Areola Tattooing Workshop
Areola tattooing can help restore confidence and a sense of self after breast cancer treatment. Through careful artistry and compassionate care, practitioners can create realistic, personalized results.
About this Workshop
Join our workshop with a leading 3D post-mastectomy tattoo artist.
Learn what areola tattooing is
View before and after photos
Discover how to find a good technician
Find out who is – and isn’t – a good candidate for these types of tattoos to help you decide if it’s right for you
Expert advice in a supportive environment
Join us and Tamara Balassanian, Master Artist and paramedical areola tattooing expert, and feel confident in your choices.
This information is designed to help you understand the process and ask questions
During our workshop we’ll cover:
The questions to ask before booking a 3D tattoo artist
Colour matching to compliment your skin tones
Health and safety protocols and the importance of a regulated and licensed professional
The differences between areola tattoos and decorative chest tattoos
Artistry and techniques such as shading, skin stretching, getting realistic results, and ensuring colour retention as the skin heals
Realistic expectations around appearance, the healing process, fading and the possible need for touch-ups
Build Confidence Through Knowledge
This session gives you information to help you decide if you should consider areola tattooing. You’ll learn how to get realistic results, what to expect during the process and proper after-care so that you heal well and retain pigmentation. By the end of our workshop, you’ll feel supported and well-informed to help you make a choice that’s right for you and your body.
This workshop is available ONLINE
- It is led by one of our experts and delivered over Zoom. It lasts for approximately an hour and 15 minutes.
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Who should attend this workshop?
- This workshop is for anyone who is interested in areola tattoos, has had breast reconstruction with or without implants, reconstructed nipples or has a flat chest wall following a mastectomy.
Find out if tattooing is right for you.
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