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Post Treatment Nutrition Workshop

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What you eat plays a vital role in how you feel after cancer treatment. But with so much nutrition advice out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. What foods support healing? How do you improve energy levels? Can nutrition help prevent deficiencies and support immune function? Join us to answer many common questions about nutrition and cancer.

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About this Workshop

Join us for an empowering discussion on:

Gut Health & Digestion – How the gut microbiome affects overall well-being

Key Nutrients – Supporting energy, mental clarity, and immune function

Food Absorption – Making sure your body gets what it needs

The 80/20 Rule – A mindful way to eat well while enjoying your favourite treats

Practical Strategies – Overcoming common post-treatment nutrition challenges

Expert advice in a supportive environment

Our free online workshop is led by registered nutritionists with cancer expertise and is designed to help you make informed, balanced choices—without stress or guilt.

This workshop is available ONLINE

It is led by one of our expert nutritionists and delivered over Zoom. It lasts for approximately an hour and 15 minutes.

Post-Treatment Cancer support

Whether you are experiencing late effects from treatment, you are concerned about preventing recurrence or you’re managing the transition from intensive support and monitoring back to care by your family doctor or general practitioner, we are here for you. 

Register for our next workshop

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Who should attend this workshop?

  • Individuals who are post-treatment and interested in nutrition during and after cancer treatment.
  • Anyone interested in nutrition relating to cancer wherever people are in their cancer continuum.
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What our participants have to say

“I was struggling with what to eat to prevent recurrence—the 80/20 rule was so helpful in helping me be kinder to myself! A total mindset shift.”

  • Emily R., Workshop Participant

Take the guesswork out of post-treatment nutrition

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Shaving & Men’s Skincare Workshop

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Physical side effects sometimes catch us by surprise. Cancer treatment can bring unexpected changes to your appearance—dry, discoloured skin, hair loss, irritation from shaving, nail changes — but that doesn’t mean you have to just put up with them.

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Real advice in a supportive setting

Our Look Good Feel Better Shaving & Men’s Skincare Workshop is designed to help you take control of these changes with simple, effective skincare, shaving and grooming techniques tailored specifically for men facing cancer.

This free workshop is offered both online and in person at select locations and is held in a comfortable, supportive setting. You can listen, learn, and participate as much—or as little—as you’d like. Participants also receive a complimentary kit of skincare and shaving products to try before and during treatment.

About this Workshop

Even if you’ve never paid much attention to your facial skin before, small changes can make a big difference in how you look and feel. In this session, we’ll cover:

Managing hair loss – What to expect, how to care for your scalp, and what happens when hair grows back

Caring for skin during treatment – Avoid dry, irritated or painful skin with simple steps that take just a few minutes a day

Shaving with less irritation – Pros and cons of using a regular razor vs an electric razor during treatment and how to shave your face (or scalp) safely when your skin is more sensitive.

Protecting your skin from the sun – We’ll share simple ways to guard sensitive skin from the sun during treatment.

Feel more like yourself…

Not in the mood to join the conversation? That’s okay. Just knowing these tips can help you regain a sense of normalcy, even if you choose to keep your routine private.

Who is this workshop for?

This session is ideal for: 

  • Men who are currently undergoing cancer treatment or have completed treatment in the past year
  • Anyone facing cancer who would like support around these specific appearance-related side effects
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Maybe you didn’t sign up for this workshop…

and someone who cares about you did it on your behalf. You’re not alone. If you’re here because a loved one suggested it, take that as a sign of their support.

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A no-pressure, practical approach

Prefer to stay in the background?

No problem! No matter if you’re attending online or in person, you can simply listen and absorb the tips at your own pace, and try them out whenever it suits you. 

Whether you’re here for skincare advice, scalp care, guidance on hair loss, or because someone you love suggested you might benefit from the workshop, we’re so glad you are here. This session is all about giving you the tools to move forward with confidence, in whatever way works best for you.

What our participants have to say

 ” Before treatment, I was worried about hair loss. I didn’t expect that issues with skin on my face and scalp would be the most challenging chemo side effect. The advice in this workshop helped.”

  • Joseph S., Workshop Participant

“Actively taking care of myself helped me regain control – I didn’t want to be defined as sick.”

  • Adam P., Workshop Participant

Join us for a workshop led by industry experts, tailored for men facing all cancers

Register today!

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Bras & Prostheses Workshop

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Whether you’ve recently had a mastectomy, lumpectomy, or breast reconstruction—or are still exploring your options—you may be wondering what comes next. How will your body change? What will feel comfortable? Join us to learn about breast forms, bras, post-surgical garments, swimsuits and more.

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About this Workshop

What you will learn:

Questions to ask before treatment and/or pre-surgery

Supportive clothing post-surgery & during treatment – Bras, camisoles, and breast forms designed for comfort and healing

How a fitting works – What to expect, when to go, and how to find the right size

Body changes during recovery – Possible impacts on sizing and when to introduce different types of apparel or forms

Breast prostheses & partial forms – Options that help restore balance and boost confidence

Financial coverage – Where to look for funding, insurance options, and community support

Expert advice in a supportive environment

Our free, expert-led workshop covers pre- and post-surgery advice and information on bras, breast forms, and clothing.

The information and dialogues are designed to help you:

Navigate your choices with confidence

Walk you through your options in a supportive and welcoming space

Gain knowledge in post-surgical camisoles, breast prostheses, mastectomy bras

Every day solutions

This workshop is available ONLINE

The ONLINE workshop is one hour long and is delivered via Zoom by one of our expert volunteers.

Who should attend this workshop?

Anyone affected by breast cancer who wants information about breast forms, garments and what to expect before, during or after surgery and/or treatment.  

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With Heartfelt Recognition

Thank you to our partner Anita Canada!

What our participants have to say

” It was great to learn about all the options I have…some of which I didn’t know about or hadn’t even thought of. Very helpful, empowering, supportive info at a time when some of us are feeling uncertain and self-conscious. “
  • Audrey R., Workshop Participant

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I’ll never forget my first interaction with Look Good Feel Better (LGFB). It was about 20 years ago, when I was first diagnosed with breast cancer. Going to the LGFB workshop was my best day at the cancer centre. Most of my time there wasn’t cheerful or enjoyable, but my experience with LGFB was just lovely. The people were so kind and helpful, and it was great fun. I look back on it fondly. 

I got diagnosed with cancer again last year. This time it was what doctors called a “complex case”: three distinct cancers – endometrial, ovarian, and fallopian – in three different places. 

One of the first things I did was to connect with LGFB again and sign up for a workshop. Getting to attend the workshop again, after all these years, was a shiny, happy moment in my cancer journey. Who knew that chemotherapy could include highlights? It was the same supportive experience with people who were genuinely interested in helping me feel my best. I loved how they now provide a helpful booklet with makeup tips, so I didn’t have to take notes during the workshop. 

The workshop isn’t really about makeup or skincare for me, though. It’s about the opportunity to chat with other people going through the same experience. And to have a good time – for example, everyone had a good giggle with some of the ladies modelling their wigs and making wonderful faces in the mirror. Sometimes, we just need a day where we’re thinking about nothing other than having fun. There’s no other agenda. It was so helpful in terms of my spirit – just enhancing my mood and joy. It’s more beneficial than therapy or a self-help group for me. LGFB cultivates such a supportive, uplifting environment. It was a very restorative afternoon – such a gift, truly. Whoever came up with this idea deserves immense credit. 

Cancer and its treatment affect us all so differently. They can tell you what to expect during chemotherapy, but you never really know what’s coming your way until it’s there. It’s the same way with how cancer treatment’s side effects impact our appearance and self-esteem – it’s so individual. We may respond with acknowledgement or disbelief or rejection or anger. There’s a plethora of possible responses. 

In a way, I think it comes down to your willingness to accept your own reality. My personal attitude is one of total acceptance. “It is what it is” – that’s my mantra. I look at whatever’s happening in my life – cancer treatment, or a broken shoelace, or a scenario in one of my past careers in education and social work – and I assess what’s going on and how to deal with it. How best can I move forward? What’s my next step? What’s the most useful and functional response to a situation? Is there a possibility to enhance the situation, to make it better? 

That approach has served me well in life, and it’s serving me well now. I change the things I can change, and accept the things I can’t. I like to be realistic about what’s possible. 

These days, I’m looking forward to what’s next. I’ve finished my treatment and I’m enjoying being retired. I love to make art – I also teach watercolour classes – and to spend time with my grandchildren. I’m looking forward to getting back to travelling, and specifically to going on a cruise. I just want to be on a ship somewhere warm. I love cruising, it’s my favourite thing. No cooking, no cleaning, just art classes, ocean air, and leisurely afternoon naps. And if I can’t be on a ship just yet, I’ll take an afternoon like the one LGFB gave me any day – one with kindness, laughter, and light.

Body Image after Cancer Treatment and Surgery 

For many people living with cancer or in remission, changes in appearance can be a major source of concern and anxiety. This is not vanity. Much of our identity is related to our physical appearance from how we wear our hair to what clothes we choose. Body shape and size, including  breasts, are often tied to a sense of self, self-expression, sexuality, and self-esteem. 

Appearance Related Side-effects

Appearance-related impacts of cancer can be temporary (like hair loss and skin changes) or more permanent (like surgery or scarring). They can all affect a person at a time when they may already feel vulnerable, which can negatively impact their mental and emotional health. 

For anyone facing a cancer diagnosis, there’s enough to cope with emotionally without also feeling that there’s no space to speak about body image issues or that it is somehow selfish or vain to worry about them. For Dee-Jay Jodoin, a B.C. woman in remission, changes to her physical appearance like hair loss and weight gain were hard to accept.

The Physical and Emotional Connection

“People going through cancer treatment often experience a change in their body image and in their relationship with their body,” says Monique Voorn, a social worker at the Simcoe Muskoka Regional Cancer Centre in Barrie, Ontario. “They may be unhappy about how their appearance has changed, whether they’ve had breast surgery or scars they don’t like, or lymphedema. Sometimes, a woman may not have had significant visual changes to her body but feels like her body has failed her or that she can’t count on it.”

There can also be physical changes that a person may not expect. “With radiation, there are skin changes,” notes Larissa Dyck, an oncology nurse in Calgary, Alta. “The area that’s treated darken and may take a while to fade, and skin can get tighter and be uncomfortable for some patients, causing a loss of range of motion.”

Keloids – a type of raised scar that can arise after a surgery. These can be a particular concern for Black women specifically.

Weight can be an issue, too. Being on hormones can cause weight changes that can turn women’s body image completely upside down and they can get really down on themselves.

It takes time for women to recognize and appreciate the full impact of the changes they’ve undergone during their cancer journey. “It’s often near the end of treatment when it really hits women what they’ve been through and all the changes they’ve undergone – physical and otherwise,” says Dyck. “When patients are finished their treatment, they expect things to go back to normal — but they may still be on long-term hormones or medication, and that’s when it can be really hard. They expect their bodies to just bounce back, and they want to go back to work and exercise, but things aren’t the same as before.” 

Empowerment is Different for Every Person

While physical symptoms can affect a person in a finite number of ways, the emotional experience is different for everyone.

“When some women lose their hair with chemo, they’ll proudly wear a head scarf. Other women have a complete loss of identity and want to wear a wig. They may fear that their partners won’t be attracted to them.”

Larissa Dyck
– Oncology nurse from Calgary, Alberta

“There’s a wave or rollercoaster ride of emotions in any type of cancer. There’s a lot of grief. We grieve all kinds of changes or losses in our lives that cancer brings — to your body, to your innocence, and to the carefree way that you may have used to experience life.”

Monique Voon
– Social Worker from Simcoe Muskoka Regional Cancer Centre

Every person’s experience, perspective, and cancer journey are unique

They want to be listened to as individuals, and they don’t want assumptions to be made about how they feel about their body. Allowing and accepting different experiences, reactions, and stages of grieving is part of the process. Every decision – from choosing a wig versus scarf, or breast reconstruction versus breast forms or living flat – is personal and empowering to each person

Get the Support you Need

With the right tools and support, each person can gain confidence in their ability to restore or renew their sense of self — however they may choose to define it.

There are many programs offering practical and emotional support, as well as individual options. Share your concerns with your medical team and ask for help. Check out your hospital’s resource library. Join a Look Good Feel Better workshop, where you’ll find both practical advice and the opportunity to connect with others who understand what you are going through.

EVERY DAY WE HELP PEOPLE FEEL LIKE THEMSELVES AGAIN 

Look Good Feel Better workshops help women, men and teens with cancer learn how to manage the physical, social and emotional impacts of cancer and its treat­ment in small and supportive groups.

Skincare & Makeup: Learn how to care for sensitive skin plus tips & techniques for managing the loss of brows and lashes, adding colour back to the face, makeup hygiene, and sun safety.

Bras & Prostheses: Learn about options available for post-surgery and beyond, what to expect at a breast form fitting, tips for where to find financial coverage, and more.

Wigs & Scarves: See a demonstration on various head coverings, what to consider when selecting a wig, easy scarf-tying techniques, plus caring for your scalp during and after treatment.

Teens: This special workshop just for teens includes skincare, on-trend make-up tips to feel your best and a demonstration of fun styles for caps, wraps, and hair alternatives.

There’s more to see and learn…

Explore our website for more resources, workshops, tips and tricks.

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Advanced Skincare Workshop

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Advances in cancer treatment have led to more people experiencing skin-related side effects, both during and after treatment. In this workshop, expert Onco-Dermatologists share simple steps to help minimize and manage common skin and nail issues.

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About this workshop

What you will learn:

How evolving cancer treatments can cause new and different side effects

Practical steps to help minimize and manage common skin, scalp, and nail concerns during and after treatment

Step-by-step guidance from an Onco-Dermatologist

Expert advice in a supportive environment

Delivered by an Onco-Dermatologist, this workshop is offered so our community can have the latest supportive information to help reduce and relieve the side effects they are experiencing.

Topics Covered in Advance Skincare include:

Simple skincare and suncare routines

Scalp care

Nail Health

Managing dry, itchy, and irritated skin

Acne and rashes

Skin recovery post-treatment

Questions?

Make sure to ask our facilitators your questions! If you prefer not to chat, just put your questions in the registration form. We are here to help!

This workshop is available Online

Join us!

  • This workshop delivered via a Q&A with our medical professional, and is offered approximately four times a year.
  • It is roughly an hour and fifteen (1:15) minutes in length and is delivered over Zoom.
  • Be sure to add your questions on the registration form!

Register Today!

 

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Who should attend this workshop?

This workshop is available for anyone who is…

  • Currently in treatment
  • Post-treatment but may still be experiencing side-effects impacting their skin, scalp, or nails
  • This workshop is designed to address skin concerns wherever people are in their cancer continuum
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What Our Participants Have to Say

“Just knowing others are going through the same symptoms gave me hope.”

  • Workshop Participant

“This webinar was delivered beautifully. I liked how participants’ questions were answered and things were explained at length.”

  • Workshop Participant

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Skincare, Makeup, & Hair Workshop

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Discover practical ways to manage the physical side effects of cancer treatment on your skin, hair, and face, including skincare, makeup, hair loss, wigs and other head coverings. Connect with a community who gets it.

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About this workshop

What you will learn:

Counteract side effects such as discolouration and dry skin

Practice simple makeup steps to add colour back to your face

Makeup hygiene and sun safety

Find tips and techniques for managing the loss of brows and lashes

Caring for your scalp during and after treatment

What to consider if selecting a wig

All types of head coverings including wigs

Pros and cons between synthetic and human hair wigs

Keep in mind…

You’ll be part of a small group of participants who are brought together to learn and share. Feel free to join the conversation. Or, just listen. It’s up to you.

Expert advice in a supportive environment

The workshop will be led by our expert cosmetic and skincare volunteers.

The information and dialogues are designed to help you:

Manage the physical side effects of cancer treatment with clear, practical guidance

Connect with others who may understand what you are going through

Understand what to expect during treatment

Prepare for treatment to help minimize potential side effects

Feel more like yourself again

This workshop is available IN-PERSON.

IN-PERSON

  • The IN-PERSON workshop is 2 hours long.
  • Called Skincare, Makeup & Hair, it combines both our Skincare & Makeup and our Wigs & Hair Alternatives workshops.

  • In-person workshops are only available in select locations around Canada. 

Workshop and Location Finder

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Who should attend this workshop?

This workshop is available to anyone who is about to start cancer treatment, is currently in treatment, or has completed treatment in the last 12 months and would like information about or support around this topic.

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The Confidence Kit

Participants in the Skincare & Cosmetics workshop receive a free kit of skincare and makeup products.

These products are generously donated to Look Good Feel Better and meet the regulations set forth by Health Canada.

These products are for educational purposes, so you may practice the techniques explained in the workshop.

  • You will receive the kit in the workshop.
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You Don’t Have to Commit to the Kit

There is no obligation to use the products provided based on advice from your medical team or personal preference.

What Our Participants Have to Say

 “This workshop was so useful because it wasn’t just information. It ‘normalized’ the techniques to cope with cancer & treatment related challenges to appearance. Yes, wear makeup and take care of your skin not just in spite of cancer and treatments but here is how to do it well and safely!”

  • Joan L., Workshop Participant

 

The volunteers were excellent and so caring. It’s the first time I’ve laughed in awhile.”

  • Joan M., Workshop Participant

Participating in our workshops

97%

of Workshop Participants

would recommend our workshops to another person facing cancer.

32%

of Our Participants

feel somewhat confident BEFORE our workshops.

89.1%

of Our Participants

reported feeling somewhat confident or confident about their appearance AFTER our workshops.

Ready to Register?

Click here to find a workshop near you.

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Wigs & Scarves Workshop

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Learn about hair loss and caring for your scalp during treatment, all about wigs, and other hair alternatives, including scarf-tying techniques.

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About this Workshop

What you will learn:

Caring for your scalp during and after cancer treatment

What to expect with hair regrowth

Discover all types of head coverings, including wigs

What to consider if selecting a wig

Pros and cons between synthetic and human hair

Easy scarf-tying techniques and more

Expert advice in a supportive environment

Led by our expert wig and hair alternative volunteers, you’ll walk through a series of steps and tips designed to help you feel more like yourself.

Just know…

You’ll be part of a small group who come together to learn and share. Feel free to join the conversation. Or, just listen. It’s up to you.

The information and dialogues are designed to help you:

Manage the physical side effects of cancer treatment with simple, practical guidance

Connect with others who may understand what you are going through

Know what to expect during treatment

Prepare for treatment to help minimize potential side effects

Feel more like yourself

This workshop is available ONLINE and IN-PERSON

Online

  • The ONLINE workshop is ONE HOUR long and is delivered via Zoom.
  • Relax and join us from the comfort of your home.

 

I’m ready to register!

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IN-PERSON

  • The IN-PERSON workshop is 2 HOURS long and is called Skincare, Makeup & Hair.
  • It combines our Wigs & Scarves and our Skincare & Makeup Workshops into a single 2-hour session.
  • The in-person workshop is only available in select locations around Canada.

 

Find a workshop location

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Who should attend this workshop?

This workshop is available to anyone who is about to start cancer treatment, is currently in treatment or has completed treatment in the last 12 months and would like information about or support around this topic.

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What are participants have to say

 “The volunteers were excellent and so caring. It’s the first time I’ve laughed in awhile.”

  • Workshop Participant

“This workshop exceeded my expectations. It helps to talk to an expert who is positive, fashionable and gives all the tips.  One example – I had no idea how a chemo/sleep cap is such an important base layer!”

  • Workshop Participant

Ready to register?

Find the right workshop for you!

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I was a new translator for Look Good Feel Better when I was offered the chance to attend a workshop to see for myself how a session was run.

I had already translated a number of testimonials from people who’d experienced a workshop, and what always stood out was the warm welcome from the volunteers, their expertise and their respect for the participants. Some mentioned how, once the workshop had begun, apprehensions disappeared and were replaced by joy—a feeling not always present during cancer. Others said that being surrounded by people going through the same experience as them gave them much-needed moral support, without realising it. For others still, the workshop was energising, as it broke the social isolation caused by the almost daily medical appointments, the omnipresent fear during the ordeal, the gruelling treatments, and the exhaustion that overtook them as time went by.

The testimonials echoed the scale of the challenges a person needs to overcome during cancer. However, when I attended a workshop, I was able to see another side of the story: the volunteers, like fairies, were busy preparing the room with care and rigour. Sure moves, no doubt performed a thousand times before, were carried out with enthusiasm and team spirit; we weren’t welcoming the Queen of England, but it just seemed the same! It was beautiful, it was real. Most of them had already done a full day’s work for their employer, but these specialists in make-up, skin care or hair prostheses had chosen to commit themselves to their community out of generosity and solidarity. The women who were about to come forward were in great need of the expertise of these volunteer specialists, and they understood this.

I took a seat at a table and, as soon as the first participants arrived, I saw the magic happen. The volunteers knew how to read the participants: the welcome was both friendly and respectful, never intrusive; everyone had their own space, depending on whether they were more reserved or more open.

These women who had come that evening to learn how to look ‘normal’ again, even though nothing in their lives was normal at the time, these women who had chosen to leave their homes in spite of great fatigue, unpredictable nausea or a morale that wasn’t always up to scratch, found themselves gathered in this room for (essentially) the same reasons: the desire to take back control of their lives, against all odds. They were going to discover make-up tips and tricks to redraw their lost eyebrows, to restore their complexion, to take care of their dull skin and their nails damaged by chemotherapy and radiotherapy. And perhaps they would be tempted to try on a wig to camouflage a now bald head, or a scarf that they’ll learn to wear in a variety of clever ways.

From that evening in February, I remember the spirit of sisterhood that springs naturally from a Look Good Feel Better workshop: women helping other women they don’t know, whom they may never see again. In time, some of them may forget the names of the others, these angels who were there for them for an evening; but the warmth of their exchanges will remain with them forever. As the American novelist and poet Maya Angelou put it so well: ‘People will forget what you said, they will forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel’. For a few hours, the volunteers and participants will have been cosmic sisters, sisters of the heart. For a few hours, they will have shared a complicity and a friendship that normally takes years to develop between two people, through living side by side and sharing life experiences. That’s the power of a Look Good Feel Better workshop.

When I was offered the job of translating content for Look Good Feel Better, I hesitated at first. I felt uneasy. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to, or even if I could, write about such a difficult subject—women affected by a serious illness that often leads to harsh treatment. I’d had breast cancer a year earlier and, a few years later, would be overcoming a second one that would require even tougher treatments. I finally agreed, but gave myself the right to withdraw if the experience proved too harsh. Then I realised that this mission to look good and feel better was a regular (and happy) reminder that human nature is fundamentally good. In fact, during the second cancer, I only kept Look Good Feel Better as a client. I insisted on continuing this work, because the stories and testimonials had a calming effect on me. Look Good Feel Better reminded me every day that I wasn’t alone. And everything is so much sweeter when you don’t feel alone, isn’t it?
 

It was on Christmas morning — while in the shower, thinking of my children and the celebrations and everything that needed to be done — that I first felt the lump. I wanted to believe it was nothing, just like the doctors had told me before, when I’d had clogged milk ducts while breastfeeding — but deep down, I knew something was different this time. 

When I left Bangladesh and came to Canada five years ago with just my husband and two small children, I never dreamed that I’d soon be facing stage 3 breast cancer in a new land, thousands of kilometres away from my family. I felt so very alone. And I had a hard time accepting my diagnosis. I’ve always lived a healthy, disciplined lifestyle. In my family, everyone looked to me as the example of good health — I was the one who knew what foods to eat and how to live the right way. I did everything right, and yet still, I was the one who got cancer. It didn’t seem fair.

I struggled to accept what was happening to me, but one thing was clear: I had no choice but to face whatever was coming. I have kids, I have a family — I wanted to live.

My treatment involved eight rounds of chemotherapy, a lumpectomy, and 19 rounds of radiation. I hid my pain, sickness, and sadness from my husband and son and daughter as much as possible. I didn’t want my husband to lose strength — he had so much on his shoulders, taking care of me and the kids. I had no one to turn to, no one to talk to. I was desperately stressed out and frustrated. And I felt so helpless — I’m a very independent person who suddenly wasn’t able to do much on my own.

Fortunately, I realized that this wasn’t a permanent situation. I knew I would be alright after my treatment, and so I accepted the pain and the reality of what I was facing. I endured the vomiting, nausea, and painful burns from radiation. And little by little, things started to look up. I found support. I found strength. And through the big dark cloud that is cancer, I found small rays of hope.

Every cloud has a silver lining, or as we say in Bangladesh, “shesh bhalo jar, shob bhalo tar” – “all’s well that ends well,” basically. Despite the hardships, cancer brought me unexpected gifts. When my hair grew back after my treatment, for the first time ever it was curly — something I had always wanted. Post-chemo, my skin is so much better. And I got to model again, thanks to Look Good Feel Better (LGFB). In my home country, I had a modelling career, but that all stopped when I came to Canada. Participating in the LGFB photo shoot brought back so many good memories. The feeling of being in the spotlight again was incredible.

Cancer has also made me a better person. I’m much stronger mentally now and I have a deeper sense of gratitude for life. I’m prepared to be a good advisor for anyone else going through a cancer journey. And I really want to contribute, to give back. I want to share my story and my positivity, and to support other cancer patients — especially back in my home country, where cancer treatment resources are limited. In Canada, I got the best cancer treatment possible. But Bangladesh is a developing country, and those who have cancer there are suffering immensely. One day, I hope to return to share what I’ve learned and support those who need it most.