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Cancer runs in my family — it has affected six out of eight siblings, my mom, my aunt, my grandmother, my cousins, and even my niece and nephew. But I’ve never let it define me. I don’t even like to use the “C” word — I call it “the unwelcome intruder.” It infiltrated my body and so now we’re just working on getting it out of there. I don’t allow it to control me or have authority over my body.

Throughout my treatment, some things have stayed constant in my life, and this grounds me. I’ve kept working, because I love my job and it gives me a sense of normalcy. My children are there for me — I’m a single mom of four kids, 22-year-old triplet daughters and a 24-year-old son. I love going on walks with my little nine-year-old Havanese and reading psychological thrillers.

My faith has been another constant source of strength. When I had a recurrence of the unwelcome intruder, I prayed a lot. I was like, “I can’t go through this a second time. Lord, what are you doing?” And I received a message saying that this was not a journey I was to take alone — that this was going to be a community-based journey for me. I have a habit of isolating myself, especially during times of struggle. Thanks to this message that came through, I’ve been staying connected and sharing my journey, especially through the women’s connect group at my church. We all go through struggles in our lives, and my hope is that by sharing mine, it’ll help people to see their own challenges in a better light and to know they’re not alone or stuck. I know there’s an end to this.

It wasn’t just my church community, either. Once I decided to overcome my habit of cutting myself off from others, I was surprised at how vast this community travelled. More and more people outside of my church, outside of my faith, have come to walk alongside me. They send texts, stop by, bring me meals, go for walks with me, and even attend appointments. It has been really uplifting, encouraging, and inspiring. I feel held and supported.

This community extends to Look Good Feel Better (LGFB) as well. Losing my hair was a big thing for me. I cried and cried for weeks on end in anticipation. I just turned 61, but I don’t feel old —and I didn’t want to look old, or sick. My hair started falling out just two days before my LGFB workshop. I felt really shut down. I almost didn’t go. But I’m so glad I did, because the workshop really helped me get through it. 

I loved how the volunteer talked about hair loss — so calmly, so casually. She’d rip off her wig, put on another, and then switch to a bandana. Something opened up in me when she was doing that. It felt so freeing. I realized I was no longer stuck to my hair, and that it was okay that it was gone. My hair falling out felt like the end of the world for me, but the workshop helped me realize that hair is just hair. It doesn’t define who I am. This new perspective changed the entire trajectory of my journey. The workshop gave me my life back, basically. It was so empowering. As a bonus, I’ve been having a lot of fun with wigs, trying different hair styles and colours.

My positive mindset has really helped me through this journey. Prayer, connection, community — these have been instrumental. And I really do treat this as a journey — not just a medical, physical journey but also a mental, spiritual, soul-deep transformation. I don’t have to worry about the unwelcome intruder in my body because that’s what my medical team does. My responsibility is to make sure that I’m staying as healthy as possible, physically and mentally. I’m not just focusing on the cancer, but on making myself better. 
 

Choosing Head Coverings

Care and Maintenance

Special Considerations

Scarf Styling and Techniques

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Understanding Your Wig Options

Choosing & Purchasing a Wig

Wig Fitting and Comfort

Managing Wig Comfort Issues 

Styling and Customization

Caring for a Wig

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Let’s Listen

Dr. Deanne Simms, Clinical Psychologist will speak to the mental health benefits of managing appearance during cancer, the impact of the loss of control and the connection between hair and identity, specifically for BIPOC women.

Dianne Austin, Cancer Survivor and Entrepreneur, will then share her story of how her personal experience has led her to create a social enterprise to meet gaps in supporting Black women facing hair loss. 

Discussions with Dr. Deanne Simms & Dianne Austin

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Our Speakers

Dr. Deanne Simms

President and CEO, ThriveSpace Health and Wellness

Dr. Simms is a senior Clinical Health Psychologist who has a well-established career providing specialized care for children, adolescents and adults with complex mental and physical health challenges or conditions. In her work, Dr. Simms works collaboratively with her clients while utilizing evidence-based, cognitive behavioral interventions within a measurement-based care framework. In her work ranging from primary to tertiary care settings across 4 Canadian provinces, Dr. Simms has worked to build and evaluate evidence-based practices and programs. Dr. Simms strives to support the health and well-being of the individuals she works with, while enhancing and improving service delivery in both the private and public health sectors. 

Dr. Simms is a passionate leader whose responsibilities have extended to provincial and national health leadership. Dr. Simms is an innovator who drives change, and is a sought-after consultant for system-level projects. Using her scientific background, combined with her dedication to enhancing and extending health service delivery, Dr. Simms contributes meaningfully to boards, steering committees, working groups and initiatives aimed at transforming the health care landscape through disruptive, data-driven innovation. Dr. Simms is the President and CEO of ThriveSpace Health and Wellness, a company which focuses on delivering and enhancing digital health services. In this space, Dr. Simms consults with individuals, clinicians, organizations and health systems to augment and enhance service delivery. Dr. Simms is passionate about ensuring individuals everywhere can access the right care, at the right time, in the way that most suits their needs.

Dianne Austin

Co-founder and CEO of Coils to Locs

Dianne Austin, B.S. is the co-founder and CEO of the startup, Coils to Locs, a direct to hospital distributor of high-quality coily, curly hair prosthesis (wigs) for Black women or any woman with highly textured hair. Coils to Locs is at the forefront of addressing an unrecognized health care disparity that impacts Black women experiencing chemotherapy-related hair loss: The lack of coily, curly wigs that are available at cancer centers in the U.S. that can be purchased with health insurance reimbursement.

A five-year breast cancer survivor and thriver, Dianne is passionate about healthcare equity issues given her personal experiences and that of family and friends within the healthcare system. 

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“I liked getting information that was specifically for teens and connecting with other people who understood what I was going through in the teen workshop.”

Maddie W., Workshop Participant

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“I didn’t want to invest in a wig but after reviewing these resources and attending the LGFB Hair, Wigs & Scarves workshop, I changed my mind. It will be a good option to improve my self image and look and feel better. Now I’m in the process of buying one. Thanks!”

Linda G., Workshop Participant

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Dealing With Hair Loss During Cancer Treatment

For some people, losing their hair can feel even harder than getting a cancer diagnosis. And that’s totally valid. Your hair might feel like a big part of who you are—it’s how you express yourself, feel confident, or just feel like you. Since hair loss is a visible sign of illness, it can mess with how you see yourself and how others see you. You might feel anxious, vulnerable, or just off.

But here’s the good news: Hair loss is temporary

And there are lots of things—like wigs, hats, or even totally new looks—that can help you feel more confident while your hair takes a break.

Whether you want to keep things feeling familiar or try something bold and new, we’ve got a few tips to help you through it.

 

Before Your Hair Starts to Fall Out

Not everyone loses all their hair, but depending on your treatment, your hair might thin or fall out completely.

Ask your team

Your oncology team can give you a heads-up on when it might happen.

Buy Before

If you’re thinking about getting a wig that looks like your current style, it’s a good idea to start shopping before treatment begins.

Lots of Hair Selfies!

Take some pictures of your hair from all angles to bring with you when you’re picking one out—it helps with finding the right colour and style.

Thinking About Shaving Your Head?

Watching hair fall out in clumps can be really tough emotionally. That’s why some people choose to shave it before it gets to that point.

If you decide to shave, don’t go all the way down to the scalp—it can irritate your skin. Instead, cut your hair to about 1/8 of an inch.

A super short cut can help reduce scalp sensitivity and make the process feel a little more in your control.

Dealing With Thinning Hair

If your hair’s starting to thin, here are some ways to take care of it:

Don’t dye or bleach it—your hair is more fragile right now

Use a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner to help soften brittle strands

Try going shorter—it can make thinning hair less noticeable and puts less stress on the roots

Avoid heat styling tools (like blow dryers and curling irons), hairsprays, and products with alcohol

Sleep on a satin or silk pillowcase—it’s way gentler on your hair and scalp

When You've Lost Most or All of Your Hair

Hair usually falls out gradually and your scalp may start to feel sore or sensitive.

– You can cut your hair to 1/8 of an inch at this point to avoid the emotional stress of watching it fall out in chunks.

– A soft sleep cap (worn day or night) can help catch hair as it falls and keep your head warm and comfy.

When your hair’s gone, your scalp might feel dry or itchy. Take care of your scalp.

You can:

– Gently massage your scalp with facial moisturizer to help with dryness and improve circulation. This helps reduce itchiness and makes it easier (and more comfy) to wear a wig, hat, or scarf!

Hair loss is hard…

but remember, it’s not forever. You’re still you, with or without hair. And whether you rock a wig, scarf, beanie, or go totally natural, the most important thing is feeling good in your own skin.

Not everything has to change during treatment.

Get tips about nails, skincare makeup and hair in our Teens Workshop.

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Picking Out a Wig That Feels Like You

Finding the right wig might take a little time, but it’s totally worth it to get one that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Whether you want something that looks just like your usual hair or you’re ready to try something totally new, here’s what to know:

Wig Shopping Tips:

Book an appointment – Trying on wigs usually takes around 45 minutes to an hour, so it’s best to plan ahead

Ask about wig caps – Some salons offer thin nylon caps to wear while trying wigs (they help keep things clean and comfy)

Bring backup – Take a friend, sibling, or parent for support and honest opinions

Bring a pic of your hair – A photo of your favorite look helps the stylist find something similar in style and colour

Keep your own hair short – Experts say keeping it around ¼ inch or shorter makes wigs fit better and feel comfier

Try lots of styles and colors – You might be surprised by what you like. Exploring different looks can actually be fun and empowering!

Take your time – You don’t have to pick the perfect wig in one visit. It's okay to take a few trips before deciding on the one that feels right for you.

Remember

Whether you’re aiming to look like your old self or switch things up completely, remember…. this is about you feeling good. There’s no wrong way to rock a wig.

Wig Appointment Checklist!

Before You Go:

Book an appointment

aim for 45–60 minutes

Support

Bring a supportive friend or family member

Bring Pics

Take a photo of your favourite hairstyle/colour

For a better wig fit…

cut your hair to about ¼ inch

At the Salon:

Ask if they provide nylon wig caps (for hygiene + comfort).

Try on a few different styles – even ones you wouldn’t normally pick.

Try a range of colours – you might find a fun new look.

Ask about care instructions and how to style each wig type (real vs. synthetic).

Check how the wig feels – is it itchy? Too tight? Too loose?

Questions to ask at the Salon:

  1. Do you have wigs made for people going through cancer treatment? 
  2. Can you help style or trim the wig once I pick one? 
  3. How do I wash and take care of this wig? 
  4. What’s the return/exchange policy if I change my mind?
  5. Can you recommend anything for keeping my scalp comfy under the wig?

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How to Choose?

Choosing a wig takes some time and effort, but it will be worth it to find the wig that feels right.

A wig feels different than your natural hair and will take some getting used to. Commit to giving yourself time to adjust to this change. Over time, it can become as familiar as any other accessory in your wardrobe.

The first question that many women consider is what fibre or material to choose. Both can be cut and styled by a hairdresser with wig experience. 

When Making the Decision:

Most people choose a wig that matches their colour, texture, and style as closely as possible

Both synthetic and human hair wigs can look natural—fit and placement are key

Consider maintenance and comfort—synthetic wigs are easier to care for, while human hair wigs offer more styling options

Synthetic Wigs

A brief overview of the pros and cons:

Pros

– Resembles natural hair, light, and breathable.

– Low maintenance and easier to care for.

– Wash and wear.

– Colours stay true over time.

– Less expensive than human-hair wigs.

– Available in many styles.

Cons

– Synthetic wigs are heat sensitive. Heat will frizz and melt the fibres so be careful when styling with curling irons or straightening wands.

– Heat can also impact synthetic wigs when opening the oven, leaning over a steamy dishwasher, or using a BBQ or fireplace, etc.

– Synthetic hair fibres are not as durable against friction – which might be more of an issue if you would like a longer hair wig.

Human-Hair Wigs

A brief overview of the pros and cons:

Pros:

– Looks and feels like natural hair.

– More versatile for styling and colouring.

– Durable and long-lasting.

– Fibres are durable against friction – a consideration for longer styles.

Cons:

– More expensive than synthetic wigs.

– Colour can fade over time.

– More care and styling are needed to maintain them.

Need more guidance?

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